Tell me something to cure my curiosity.
I know... it killed the cat, right?
I want to know anyway.
So, you're on Facebook... or let's say just any old social media or interaction website.
You have a password and they say not to give it to anyone.
Would you give it to your spouse?
Would your spouse demand that you give it to them?
Or vice versa...
Would you demand your spouse's password?
Or if they just figured it out on the sly because they don't trust you,
would you then change your password?
Is there a need for them to have your password?
As for me?
My husband could care less about this stuff, and there's no reason in the world he cannot trust me on these social media sites.
BUT,
there's absolutely no need for him to have my passwords.
How about you?
Just curious.
Meow... ooops, there went another kitty life.
22 comments:
Mr. Secret Agent understands about privacy...after all...he is a Secret Agent ;->
Janet xox
The Empty Nest
My husband could care less. But I'm sure if he needed to check, he'd figure it out.
Ahhh good question... I think my husband totally knows my character and I believe I know his...by Gosh I have tested it over the years..and he uses FB intermittedly.. but I think he doesn't need to know mine and vice versa...I can't really put it into words...
it's never come up really. if nick wanted to know my passwords, then i think there is a bigger problem than just wanting to know my passwords....we are trusting around here, have had no reason not to be. but heck, i use the same 2 passwords for most things to make it easier on myself and everyone in my house knows what numbers i am talking about lol
No worries here, but we actually have a book we write all our logins and passwords down in. 1) Because we have a tendency to forget 2) if something would happen to one of us we want the other to be able to get in to our things.
Check out this ... a prospective employer asked for FB password. http://apnews.myway.com/article/20120320/D9TK6VV80.html
I don't know his and he doesn't know mine...just the way it is.
Like Kelly57, I also have a book with a list of sites I subscribe to and the passwords. I suppose I should will this little book to someone who could go in and delete me when the time comes. . . .
Hubby doesn't do Facebook . . . I don't much . . . Don't care about password sharing . . . Doubt he does either . . . Wouldn't bother me if he knew mine or visa versa . . . However . . . I do care about him caring about me . . .
After 30 years of being married I'm fine with giving my passwords to my husband and vice versa. Actually I'm the one that set up voice-mail on his cell phone--So I have the code, which was a good thing to have when I called and yelled at him a while back for something that I thought he'd done--I called it back and deleted the message before he got it! So there's advantages to having them! :-)
My husband does not know mine nor does he care. I know his only because I set it up for him..~Patti
Been married 38 years this year..July!! And I keep a book near my puter that has my passwords...he knows where it is and can look at it anytime he wants. I have no problem with that.
I know where his passwords are too. Do I check on him...nope. Does he check on me...nope! Just saying!'
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SueAnn
We have no reason to want each other's passwords. I have so many passwords for FB, bank accounts, YouTube, more than one Email account....I sometimes play a guessing game to figure them out.
I don't give my passwords out either. No particular reason, but I don't. I don't feel the need to have his either.
I know his and he knows mine. I don't feel the need to check his stuff and I know he could care less about my stuff but when I got sick we realized that he would need to post on my blog and if anything worse happened it would be nice to be able to access my paypal! And I have a separate bank account that I want him to be able to access too if need be. My kids don't know my passwords and I see no reason why they should! 23 years of marriage I literaly trust him with my life!
No, I don't want my husband to have my passwords because I agree, if he asked for them, then we probably have bigger problems. We tell each other most everything, but we are not the same person. I trust him and he trusts me. If it got so far that we didn't trust each other, then facebook would be the least of our worries.
Yeah, I don't give mine out and don't want his. Married people need a little bit of privacy!
Great question Di...since we have been married since we were babies (ok, 18 and 19) we don't even think about it...I set up all the passwords and try to write them down "in case" and I tell him some of them for email etc and he doesn't remember them for 2 seconds. Money..passwords...food..we share it all! LOL
and just BTW, you are looking amazing!!! :) Are you getting younger and younger??? Please share the secret! :)
No secrets here. We have every password written in a rolodex next to the computer. In fact, I've given exact instructions should anything happen to me what they are supposed to write on the blog when I go.
It had better be good, dammit.
I too have a log with passwords due to our advanced age. Have I ever used his to spy? Um, no. I'm not 16. Has he used mine to spy? I doubt it.
I think he's boring, and he thinks I'm crazy, so it's better this way...
I have a book with all my passwords written down and so does my husband. He can look at mine or I can look at his. We don't but we could if we wanted to. Makes no difference to me.
no trust issues here ...
We have a notebook with all our passwords written down ... so yep, we share!
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